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  1. Disembodied voices of the ancestors

    April 4, 2012 by Kaitlin

    So, I know it’s not really good blog etiquette to post promises of exciting stories, not deliver on those promises and instead drop in with reminiscences about a deceased grandparent, but that’s what happening.

    My paternal grandmother, Grandma Parker, died a year ago today, and I’ve thought a lot about her in recent weeks. She was always the grandparent I felt closest to. When I was younger, this closeness came from shared activities like reading and baking bread and everyone always telling me I got my blue eyes from her.

    A young Grandma Parker, sunning with her sisters at Lake Titus

    As I got older though, I came to realize we really were kindred spirits in a lot of ways. We both loved being outdoors and had a real curiosity about other countries and cultures. She always encouraged my writing and was quite the writer herself. We’d have lengthy email exchanges (she also LOVED technology and was rockin’ Apple computers and digital cameras way before they were cool) about our lives past and present.

    But it wasn’t just with me—she took a real interest in all her eight grandchildren’s lives. She was always emailing, Skyping, and in the later years, even Facebooking. She wanted to be up to date on our most recent achievements so she could brag to her bridge group. More than that though, she loved people and she loved being in contact and making connections with them.

    Looking back on one of those emails, sent shortly after I had moved to LA, I’m struck by what a forward-thinking, open-minded woman she was, especially given the time period and her surroundings. I don’t think she ever led any marches, but she lived her life in a way I really admire–a kind of quiet rebellion against the norm:

    When I hear about the experiences you have had and are having, I can’t help but contrast them with mine.  Born in 1922, I grew up in a town with about 6 Jewish families and no blacks.  When I was in high school our sponsor teacher resigned from our sorority because we invited Sara Cohen to join!!  When our Congregational church invited the Jubilee Singers to come to town, the local hotel wouldn’t put them up because they were black.  Church members took them into their homes.  I got through college without ever hearing the word “lesbian”, and gay meant we were happy.  I knew a couple of boys we called “sissies” but I never dreamed there was anything sexual about it.

    I was a part of the 60’s revolution when I went back to college for my Master’s and started working with disadvantaged children in the inner city, mostly black.  I started thinking for myself rather late in life and searched for a church that I could accept. I came to think that each person has to find his/her own spiritual path, and I believe now that the Universe (God) operates on basic principles that we have to discover. The law of gravity and laws of magnetism operate for everyone whether we believe in them or not!! I think there are many principles that we are discovering with our own bodies, even, and perhaps Yoga addresses some of these.  Now that I am facing the last years, months, days of my life, I will soon discover the answer to the final mystery.  I’m willing to take my chances thinking that I have lived a life full of love, have never knowingly done harm to anyone and strongly believe that my spirit will live on in some form.  If I’m wrong, so be it!!!  Sorry I can’t let you know!!

    There have been so many ups and downs in both Cape Town and London that I wish I could have shared with her. I had just started to really get into radio reporting before she died, and she’d always remind me to enunciate so her old ears would be able to understand. I think about her now, every time I step into a recording booth or struggle with some script writing: word it so Grandma Parker would get it.

    My time in London is drawing to a close, and I’m not sure what the next step will be, but whatever it is, my ultimate hope is that it will involve creating radio that will do justice to her spirit.

    It seemed fitting then, that during a Xhosa language lesson in Cape Town, we learned that when the Xhosa people first saw and heard radio, they called it “unomathotholo” or, roughly, “the disembodied voices of the ancestors.” In Xhosa culture, the spirits of one’s ancestors play an important role in daily life, so it makes sense that lacking any context, the voices coming from the radio could well be voices of their deceased relatives. In a way, they weren’t far off. There’s so much of what we do say and what we’re even allowed to say that’s owed to the voices of those who came before.

  2. You call this art?

    July 5, 2011 by Kaitlin

    Every year, in the dead of South African winter, the country’s National Arts Festival takes over the university town of Grahamstown in the Eastern Cape. Telling South Africans I’d be going to the Grahamstown Festival would invoke one of two responses: “Ohmygosh, you are going to just love it! The art, the creative geniuses, the parties—it’s all fabulous!”

    Or: “What’s Grahamstown?”

    Well, to my travel companions and me, Grahamstown is that place where we spent some quality time in the police station, saw a Dutch guy ribbon dance while wearing high heels and singing Lady Gaga, and slept in multiple layers of pants and sweaters because it was so cold—and that was all within the first 12 hours of arriving.


  3. Let’s talk yoga

    June 13, 2011 by Kaitlin

    There was a point in my life where I was doing a lot of yoga. Taking it, teaching it, eating it up.

    Then, I moved to LA. For many people, a move to LA is probably the entry point to yoga, but I just never had the time or patience to connect to a studio there. I found a place kinda close to my apartment, but it was still driving distance, and the classes just weren’t my style. My ability to do endless chaturangas faded by the day.

    But, I’m happy to report that coming to Cape Town has led to a rediscovery of the wonders of yoga. There’s a studio here that’s run by the same person who founded the franchise I taught at in the States. Who knew he was a Capetonian? The classes are hot, intense, and packed. After a day of sitting still and transcribing interviews, an hour of power vinyasa at this place feels like heaven. Combined with all the walking, my body just feels better than it’s felt in a long time. I’ve regained a lot of strength and flexibility that LA seems to have zapped.

    Sometimes when I think about the three years I spent in Portland, scooting from funny job to funny job (toy company to a farm run by dwarfs, anyone?), I wonder what the hell I was doing there for so long. But I think I forget that a lot of those years were consumed with yoga. Teacher training took months. I’d sometimes teach 3 classes a day in just as many locations and come home feeling exhausted and anti-social. But it was those many trips to and from far-flung studios that I really discovered podcasts and started connecting to radio. And now, being in Africa, working in radio, and feeling fabulously re-inspired by yoga, I see that all those years weren’t just wasted youth. They were laying a foundation. At the time, I just wasn’t sure for what.

    But some things still feel weird. First of all, why is yoga here so, well, white? My classes in Portland, one of the “whitest” cities in America were more diverse than the classes I’ve gone to here, in a country where white people make up only 9% of the population. Granted, that percentage is about double in Cape Town, but still, I don’t pass 10 white people on my busy walk to work in the morning, but within a half hour after work, just down the road, 40 white people are crammed in a room together exhaling in child’s pose.

    I’ve been to two studios where this is the case, and they also happen to be the first two studios that come up when you do a Google search for “Cape Town yoga.” So maybe all yoga here isn’t white, just the ones with the best SEO.

    Another thing that strikes me are the yoga truisms that get thrown around studios all the time and never really bothered me in the States but are somehow harder to swallow here. The one that really gets me is “May all beings everywhere be happy, peaceful, and free.” Yes, apartheid is officially over, and on paper, everyone here has the opportunity to be happy, peaceful, and free. But you only have to go a couple miles outside of city center to realize that this is not the case. The ramifications of apartheid are brutal and long lasting, and when upper class whites are sitting in a climate controlled studio wishing each other peace and happiness, part of me thinks, “Yeah, OK, let’s send those good vibes out into the world,” but a bigger part of me wants to scream, “Are you kidding me!?”